Chevrah Kadisha, is, in its most liberal interpretation, the traditions and systems around the Jewish end of life. More literally, it means the traditional organization of women and men who support and assist families and communities at the end of life and after. First mentioned in tractate, Sotah, in the Talmud (circa 200 BCE – 500 CE) and documented as far back as the mid-16th century in Prague.
Rabbi Rob is a Chevra Kadisha certification candidate and student at the Gamliel Institute.
“My heart’s desire is to help leverage centuries of Jewish wisdom about death and dying and bring it into contemporary conversation and practice.”
Chevra Kadisha encompasses networks of people, from burial societies, hospices, hospitals, and nursing homes. The societal discomfort with the topic has resulted in a compelling need in general and specifically within the Jewish community to develop a community to help the people we serve.
Rabbi Rob is a “shomer” in the broadest sense of the word, who helps accompany Jews as they explore ways to live in the face of death. The Covid epidemic helped develop receptivity once again within the Jewish Community to this age-old system.
“I do not take a position regarding Jewish theology movements or practice. Rather I want to help those in need and others to broaden their ability to access resources on Jewish death and dying.”
Are you familiar with the following words and concepts associated with Jewish death and dying?
Vidui - Shmirah - Tahara - Chevrah Kadisha - Bikkur Cholim - Aninut- Shiva -Shloshim - Levayah - Mitzvah - K’riah - Chesed
Vidui - a prayer recited near death that is like a confession to help someone die in peace. If the person is too ill, it can be recited by a rabbi or family member.
Shmirah - both a physical and spiritual guarding of the deceased before burial or cremation involving many volunteers. Can be done virtually.
Tahara - Before the body is buried, it is washed in this ritual act of purification. Can be done virtually.
Bikkur Cholim - to visit and extend aid to the sick.
Aninut - the period of time between death of a loved one and burial.
Shiva - the 7 day mourning period for the family that starts from burial.
Shloshim - 30 day mourning period from burial.
Levayah - honoring the deceased by accompanying him/her to the grave.
Mitzvah - does not mean “good deed” but rather observing one of the 613 mitzvot.
K’riah - to tear a piece of clothing or black ribbon that is worn, as a sign of grief.
Chesed - to perform an act of loving-kindness.
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There is a rich tradition behind each of the aspects of Chevra Kadisha. Contact me for a personal introduction to Chevrah Kadisha and to see how it can enrich your life.